The loop of changes in space squeezes our necks like a loop, shock with shock, the choice of comfort, money, beloved, beloved and familiar life.
Many now feel this discomfort.
Everyone is storming. People are frantically looking for … what to grab! And this is the main mistake.
The world is beginning to take away from us all crutches, handles, safety cables and seat belts. Everything that seemed to us to be a pillar goes into the past and disappears.
Because we are taught only one thing – to find our own support! Reliance on yourself, on your feet, with your hands to maintain balance and move only forward, every day, without stopping for a moment.
The transition has begun, have you noticed?
Cries soar in the air: “How to live on if you have taken away everything you know?”
I hear it every day, I see fear and misunderstanding, so I write, explain.
It is beneficial for a woman to hide behind the stereotype of creating the weak and vulnerable – the “cult of female weakness”! Brought up in a grotesque society, this “cult of weakness”, avenging a false essence, he makes excellent use of the masses of women with numerous deeds and teachings in which she was forced to betray her true essence and voluntarily abandon her real life. Condemning the poor partner in the couple for a miserable existence.
At first it all started well.
The task of “getting married.” Many have successfully dealt with this.
– “Fuuuu, you can relax … My husband got a good, smart, educated, serious, not walking, makes a lot of money!
And I will give birth to children, and I will accept, and, cool, the house is full)) And I do not care that for some reason he spoke out against the birth of his third child. This is strange, anyway, I will go to HIS SON! ”
Another 5 years have passed ….
“My husband is a bastard, a full creature and a bastard!” He filed for divorce, took the children and threw me out of the apartment. I will gather the public in defense of this lawlessness, because I have nothing to pay lawyers. The trouble has come, I will be HIS mud on every corner, doused and damned to the seventh knee! ”
This is one story, one woman. Each story has its own. But…
Anyone but her is always to blame …
However. This is her choice! The choice to marry, give birth, “pour mud” …
All this is her choice!
There are other ways.
There really is, just need to see them.
1. Accept the situation! With someone who doesn’t like it.
Stop thinking you’re a fighter, and this is your war.
No! In this case, you simply do not have your own resources, you need to earn them yourself.
2. Find yourself a job (an interesting job, a lesson to your liking) and immerse yourself in it to get a good result and money for efforts and professionalism as soon as possible.
Everyone has strengths that can be turned into money.
3. Find good professionals: a family lawyer, a psychologist to restore your internal emotional background, coach or mentor.
They only turn to them, this is the first test – the destruction of pride and significance!
And also the lessons of acceptance and the belief that the world cares about me and wants my happiness.
You are ready?
4. To live in the first difficult times and not go crazy with longing for old times, habits, standards … and from resentment that turned out to be in such a situation.
Live the pain and cry, be angry and indignant, but thank for the lesson and find the strength to act further!
What else would you add? What are the actions for a person who rushes about in the hell of his fears, and not the ability to live?
An alternative to her actions today is to gather sympathy from the surrounding benefactors, crying and counselors who only nourish and grow in her a sacrifice the size of a Hydra.