Have you heard the concept of being a victim? Victim of relationships, victim of events, victim of circumstances …
How profitable it is to be this very victim. Yes?
Well, judge for yourself. It’s much easier to blame another person or event for something than to accept your incompetence, isn’t it?
We don’t even notice how we blame partners or colleagues for a torn deal. Or blame spouses for lack of attention. Or we blame the state and government for an insufficiently quality life.
If you think about it, then each of us does this daily. Indeed, for this you do not need to be strong, courageous, responsible, decisive. It is enough to transfer responsibility to someone else.
That is, we are easily ready to give responsibility for our lives to absolutely everyone who is “guilty” of its failure in one way or another? Doesn’t that seem strange to you?
Isn’t it better to take courage and accept all responsibility?
Isn’t it better to think about what I did wrong (or so) for this deal to take place, for my relatives to be happy, for the quality of my life to become better? BUT?
It’s complicated! Yes! Very difficult!
But this is a double-edged sword … After all, taking responsibility, we will know that the worst and best events depend only on us!
We will know that WE MANAGE everything that surrounds us. And that means we can create the best too! And with such beliefs, much can be achieved! You can solve any problem, reach any goal and realize any dream!
So, it’s time to choose who makes decisions in our lives? Who is to blame for how and where we live now? Who is able to change the situation and our whole life?
It is only WE ourselves!