How often do we forget about ourselves and replace this feeling with concern for everything that is dear to us. We are sometimes even afraid to once again devote more attention to ourselves than we should, suddenly we will be considered egoists …
But, in fact, selfishness and self-love are completely different things!
Loving yourself means taking care of yourself.
Take care of:
And yes. very often, it seems to us that all this depends on external factors, on the people next to us and on their attitude. We often associate our joys and conditions with the joys and feelings of people close to us.
If the child is well, he is healthy, happy, then we are happy.
If a loved one is comfortable, he is in love, then we are happy.
If everything is fine with friends or acquaintances, then we are happy.
But this is the biggest mistake.
It turns out that we compare ourselves with others. But everything is fundamentally the opposite.
When we are happy, glad and contented, everything around is good.
This understanding is not instantaneous. Habits, a strong thing. However.
If what you read now responded and interested, then believe me, soon everything will change. You just need to look more often in this direction.
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